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9 Signs you may consider a memory care facility

Helping you keep memories while making new ones.
Helping you keep memories while making new ones.

There may come a time in your life, or the life of a loved one, when you need to consider a memory care facility like the Villas. While this is not an easy decision to make, it may be the best step for ensuring that the individual with memory loss receives the care and support they need. If you are wondering if a memory care facility might be right for you or someone you love, here are nine signs to look out for.

1. Decline in Personal Hygiene

If you've noticed that your loved one is no longer keeping up with their usual hygiene routine, it may be time to consider memory care. This can be a sign that they are struggling to remember how to perform basic self-care tasks or that they are feeling overwhelmed and hopeless. Memory care can provide the structure and support that your loved one needs to maintain their hygiene. A memory care facility will have staff members who can help remind and assist residents with bathing, grooming, and other self-care tasks. In addition, memory care facilities typically offer more opportunities for socialization and recreational activities, which can help reduce feelings of isolation and despair.

2. Missed medications or medical appointments

Keeping track or prescriptions and medical appointments can be a lot for anyone, but is especially daunting an for those with memory impairments. If your loved one is forgetting to take their medication or skipping doctor appointments, it’s a critical sign to consider memory care options. Memory problems can lead to serious medication mistakes, so getting the proper care and support is essential.

3. Difficulty with daily routine:

One of the first signs that your loved one may need memory care is if they start having difficulty completing their usual daily tasks or feeling overwhelmed and confused. This can be anything from forgetting to take their medication to not being able to remember how to do simple household chores. If you notice your loved one struggling with any aspect of their daily routine, it's important to talk to them about it and see if they need help.

4. Wandering or disorientation:

Wandering is when a person gets up and walks around aimlessly, without any specific destination in mind. For people with dementia, this can be a way of coping with anxiety or boredom. It can also be a side effect of certain medications.

Wandering can pose a serious safety risk for people with dementia, as they may not be aware of the dangers around them and may get lost. Memory care facilities provide specialized care and supervision for people with dementia. This can help to keep them safe and reduce the risk of them getting lost.

5. Shakiness and fall hazards:

If your loved one is becoming unsteady on their feet, it’s important to consider memory care options. This can be a sign of balance problems or weakness, which can lead to falls and serious injuries. A true memory care facility is designed to address many issues like proper lighting with handrails and grab bars where they may be helpful. Our staff is also extremely mindful about tripping hazards and will work with your loved one improving strength and balance.

6. Signs of social isolation, depression or personality changes:

If your loved one is showing signs of depression ,social isolation or changes in personality, it can be a sign that they are struggling to cope with their memory problems and need extra support. Depression and social isolation can lead to decreased activity levels, which can make memory problems worse. If your loved one is exhibiting these symptoms, memory care may be the best option to help them improve their quality of life.

7. Extreme memory loss:

Extreme memory loss can have a profound impact on an individual's life. It can cause problems with everyday activities, such as forgetting how to perform simple tasks or where they are supposed to be going. Memory loss can also make it difficult to maintain relationships and participate in activities that were once enjoyed. For some people, extreme memory loss can even lead to a decline in physical abilities. Memory care can be an important step in preserving the safety and well-being of someone with extreme memory loss.

8. Caregiver stress:

Caregiver stress is a very real and serious issue. It can be caused by many things, including the demands of caring for a loved one with memory problems. If you are feeling overwhelmed, it is important to seek help. There are many resources available to caregivers, and finding the right support can make a big difference. Memory care options can provide much-needed relief from the demands of caregiving. These programs can offer respite care, which gives caregivers a break from their duties. They can also provide support and resources to help caregivers cope with their stress. Don't hesitate to reach out for help if you are struggling with caregiver stress. There is no shame in admitting that you need assistance.

The Villas offers memory disabled seniors a comfortable, upscale living experience with all the comforts of home. Our Alzheimer's living facility provides residents with top-of-the-line amenities, plenty of social activities, and personalized care from our experienced friendly staff. Our luxurious setting and commitment to quality care make The Villas the perfect choice for your loved one.

Visit our Memory Care page to learn more


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